Guess what I learned?!?!
THE OLDER I GET, THE LOWER MY MUH FUGGIN' TOLERANCE FOR BS...
So when it REEEEEALLY hit me that my daughter was going to go through with marrying her punk.ass.jailbird.ass son's father with or WITHOUT my PRECIOUS blessing ::rolls eyes:: I went a step further and put her @ss straight O-U-T of my house. [Yep...I sure did and as a matter of fact, she's been gone for about 3 weeks now!!!]
Y'all don't understand...From the time that chile turned 18 [hell maybe even 17] she's been boasting "she's grown" so I reasoned that with THAT being the case, she ought to be able to make grown woman decisions and it's onlllllllly right that she do so from the comfort of her own damn home!
Besides, like my older sister ALWAYS says: I am my mother's child ---> STUBBORN AS ALL HELL so there's no way I'm going to be bustin' my @ss at work 5 days out of the week to put a roof over her head, put money in her pocket whenever she's outta work [which is pret-TY damn often], buy food to feed her, clothes to cover her damn back [when shit don't fit cuz she's sitting around eatin' all damn day], clean up after her cuz although she's grown, I gotta talk to her as often as I do my 9 y/o about picking up after herself and her son and she don't even PRETEND to value my damn opinion.
Everybody thinks I'm wrong...
Is quick to tell me "I shouldn't have done THAT"...
"That I should think about my grandson" [yadda yadda FRIGGIN yadda] but you know what ---> until anyone has walked a mile in my shoes, they won't fully understand ALL that my daughter has put me through.
I mean I'm pretty open in my posts...
I talk about A LOT of shit other folks wouldn't dare put out there and I'm not ashamed of that at all but still yet, there are even deeper things I leave out.
So while everybody else is busy worrying about my GROWN daughter, for once, I gotta worry about me/what I want.
Ummm...Did I mention the older I get, the lower my tolerance for bullshit?!?! Yeah...it's a true story!
Monday, August 10, 2009
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- 2 MUCH FREE TIME
- 2007
- 2008
- A DAMN SHAME
- A NERVOUS WRECK
- A PENNY FOR YOUR THOUGHTS
- A WHOLE BUNCHA NOTHIN...
- AAARGGGHHH
- ABOUT ME
- ACCESS DENIED
- Adminstrative Professionals Day
- AGGRAVATION
- AIN'TCHU GOT SHIT ELSE TO DO?
- AINTCHU GOT SHYT ELSE TO DO?
- AM I OVERREACTING?
- ANOTHER 21 YEAR TO LIFE SENTENCE??
- ARE YOU FCKING KIDDIN' ME RIGHT NOW??
- ARE YOU SMARTER THAN 3rd GRADER?
- ARE YOU SMARTER THAN A 2nd GRADER?
- ASSBACKWARDNESS
- AWWW DAYUUUUM
- BABY MAMAS
- BABY MAMAS AND THEIR DRAMAS
- BACK TO WORK
- BAD CREDIT
- BAD HABITS
- BE BACK TOMORROW
- BEBE'S KIDS
- BEHIND EVERY BITCH THERE'S A MAN THAT MADE HER THAT WAY
- BETTER YOU THAN ME
- big boy
- BIG MISTAKE
- BIG PHAT LOSER
- BIT BY THE BUG
- BITCHASSNESS
- BOO-BOO DA FOOL
- BOOOO
- BOY PLEASE
- BOYFRIENDS
- BOYS ARE WAY MORE INQUISITIVE
- BULLIES
- BULLSHYT SCALES
- BULLSHYT TAX RETURN
- BUMBOCLAAT
- BUNCH'A BASTIDS
- BUSY
- CAN I HELP YOU?
- CAN'T BELIEVE MY EYES
- CAN'T WAIT TIL' FRIDAY
- CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?
- CELEBRITY CRUSHES
- CHEAP BASTIDS
- CHEATING
- children
- CHILE PLEASE
- COME GET YOU SOME
- CONFESSIONS OF A DRAMA MAMA
- CONSEQUENCES
- CONSIDER YOURSELVES WARNED
- COULDA...WOULDA...SHOULDA
- CRAZY DREAMS
- CREEPY
- DA CLUB
- DA DEVIL
- DA FAM
- DA FUGG AM I WAITIN' FER??
- DA FUGG IS THAT SMELL?
- DA HEEBIE JEEBIES
- DA HELL DONE GOTTEN INTO Y'ALL??
- DASS SOME BOLLSHYT
- DEAD ASS WRONG
- DECISIONS
- DEFYING YOUR PARENTS
- DELURKING DAY
- DID YOU KNOW?
- DID YOU SAY WHAT I THINK YOU SAID?
- DIS SOME BOOLSHYT
- DISBELIEF
- DOES THIS LOOK LIKE THE FACE OF SOMEONE WHO CARES?
- DOES THIS MEAN I SUCK?
- DOES THIS MEAN I'M BITTER?
- DOES THIS MEAN I'M LAME?
- DOES THIS MEAN I'M NOT ONE OF THE COOL PARENTS?
- DOIN' ME
- DON'T BELIEVE THE HYPE
- DON'T JUST STAND THERE...DO SOMETHING
- DON'T PUT OFF TIL' TOMORROW WHAT YOU CAN DO TODAY
- DON'TCHU GOT SHYT ELSE TO DO?
- Dreams
- DROPPIN' IT LIKE IT'S NOT
- DUH
- DUMB SHYT 101
- EASY STREET
- EAT BITCH
- EXCITEMENT
- EXPERIENCE REQUIRED
- FAJITA TITS
- FASHION
- FAST FOOD SUCKS
- FILL IN THE BLANK FRI.
- FLASHBACKS
- FRESH MEAT
- Friday
- FRIENDS TIL THE END
- FROM BAD TO WORSE
- FUCK KINDA QUESTION IS THAT?
- FUCKERY
- FUGG A VOWEL...BUY A CLUE
- FUGGEDABOUTIT
- FUN TIMES
- Funny
- FYI
- GET IN WHERE YOU FIT IN
- GETTIN IT 2GETHER
- GETTIN MY GET RIGHT ON
- GHETTOFABULOUSNESS
- GO SEE THE DOCTOR
- GOOD GOOGA MOOGA
- GOOD NEWS
- GOSSIP
- GROW DA FUGG UP
- GROW UP
- GROWIN UP
- GROWIN' PAINS
- GROWN ASS MESS
- GTFOH
- GUILT
- HAPPY HAPPY JOY JOY
- HAPPY HOLIDAYS
- HAPPY NEW YEAR
- HARDHEADED MO'FO's
- HAVE I NO SHAME?
- HAVING YOUR CAKE AND EATING IT TO
- HE'S ARRIVED
- HEADACHES
- HEATWAVE
- HERE I GO AGAIN
- HERE THERE AND EVERYWHERE
- HOLLA ATCHA GIRL
- HOT ASS MESS
- HOW
- HOW DID WE GET HERE
- HOW DID WE GET HERE?
- HOW DO I LOVE THEE?? LET ME COUNT THE WAYS...
- HUMILIATION
- Humor
- HUMP DAY
- I AIN'T ABLE
- I AIN'T MAD AT THAT
- I CAN'T DEAL
- I DIDN'T SIGN UP FOR THIS SHIT
- I DON'T DO MORNINGS
- I DON'T FEEL THE APPRECIATION
- I DON'T THINK SO
- I FEEL GOOD
- I GOTTA GET OUTTA HERE
- I HATE MONDAY
- I HATE SUPERBOWL SUNDAY
- I JUST DON'T GET IT
- I NEED TO BE SHAMED
- I O U AN ASS WHIPPIN'
- I SHO' CAN ATTRACT EM'
- I THOUGHT ONE HAND WAS SUPPOSED TO WASH THE OTHER
- I'D SHO' LIKE TO HIT IT
- I'M ANNOYED
- I'M JUST SAYIN'
- I'M NOT HAPPY
- I'M NOT HAPPY PEOPLE...NOT HAPPY
- I'M SOOO NOT READY
- I'M TIGHT
- I'VE GOT A SECRET ADMIRER
- I'VE GOT NOTHING
- IBTC
- IDGAF
- IF YA DON'T KNOW...NOW YA KNOW
- IMAGINE THAT
- IMPROVEMENT
- INCREASE MY ARSE
- INDECENT PROPOSAL
- INFIDELITY
- INSOMNIA
- IS IT MONDAY ALREADY???
- IT IS MORE THAN JUST SEX
- IT IS WHAT IT IS
- IT'S ABOUT TO GO DOWN
- IT'S ALL FUN N' GAMES TIL YOU HAVE A BABY
- IT'S MY BIRTHDAY
- IT'S NOT HAP'NIN
- IT'S NOT THAT SERIOUS
- JAYDEN
- JAYDEN'S DAD
- JUNK FOOD JUNKIE
- JUST BECAUSE
- JUST DO IT
- JUST MY LUCK
- JUST ONE OF THOSE DAYS
- JUST SAY NO
- JUST SAY NO TO SLACKING
- KARMA IS A BITCH
- KEEPIN' IT REAL
- KIDS
- KIDS...YA GOTTA LOVE EM
- KUDOS TO GOOD SAMARITANS
- LEEME LONE
- LESSONS LEARNED
- LET US PRAY
- LIKE TO HEAR IT...HERE IT GO
- LIVIN' LA VIDA LOCA
- LOVIN' THIS GRUB
- MAKE THIS MAKE SENSE
- MALE VS. FEMALE
- MAMA SAID THERE'D BE DAYS LIKE THIS
- MAN DOWN
- MAN UP
- MASS TRANSIT SUCKS
- MEME MADNESS
- MERRY CHRISTMAS
- MI FAMILIA
- MONDAY AGAIN
- MOVIES
- MUSIC
- MY BAD BRUH
- MY DIRTY LIL SECRET
- MY FAVORITE DAY OF THE WEEK
- MY GRANDSON
- NO MONEY MO' PROBLEMS
- NO TAG BACKS
- NO THANKS
- NOT A GOOD LOOK
- NOT AGAIN
- NOT HAPPY
- NOT I SAID MS. BEHAVING
- NOT SO BAD AFTERALL???
- OFFICE RANT
- OH HELL NO
- OH HELLZ NO...
- OH MY EYES
- OH NO HE DIDN'T
- OH NO SHE DIDN'T
- OH WORD?
- OLE NASTY ASS
- OLE' STANKY DANK
- ONE FOR THE WTF FILES
- ONE SHOT DEALS
- OOH LA LA
- OUT WITH THE OLD...IN WITH THE NEW
- OVERREACTING AM I?
- PAMPERING
- PARENTING 101
- PARTY TIME
- PARTY'S OVA
- PERVS 101
- PERVS SUCK
- PHATTY GURL ISSUES
- PHOTO POST
- PLAYIN' CATCHUP
- PRE-TEENS
- PROCRASTINATION
- PROCRASTINATION IS A MUH FUGGA
- PSA
- PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT
- PUTTIN' IT OUT THERE
- QUESTION OF THE WEEK
- RAMBLING
- RAMBLING AT RANDOM
- RANDOM QUESTION(S)
- RANDOMNESS
- RANTING
- REBELLION
- REGRET
- RELATIONSHIPS
- RESPONSIBILITIES
- ROOM TO BREATHE
- S'NOT A GAME
- SAD BUT TRUE
- SALES
- SAY A LIL' PRAYER FOR ME
- SAY IT AIN'T SO
- SCHOOL
- SEASONS GREETINGS
- SENIOR MOMENT
- SHAME ON DAMN ME
- SHAME ON ME
- SHE BOUT TO DRIVE ME TO DRANK
- SHE'S AT IT AGAIN
- SHENANIGANS
- SHOULD BE A CRIME
- SITCHO ASS DOWN
- SKINNY BITCHEZ ARE EVIL
- Sleep
- SMOTHERLY INSTINCTS
- SO I'VE BEEN THINKIN
- SO NOT READY
- SO NOT SEXY
- SO YOU THINK YOU CAN DANCE
- SO YOU WANNA BE STARTIN' SOMETHIN
- SO...I WAS THINKIN'...
- SOMEBODY LIED 2 YOU
- SOMEONE PLEASE CALL 911
- SOMETHIN' AIN'T RIGHT
- SOMETHIN' SOMETHIN'...SOMETHIN' SOMETHIN' JUST AIN'T RIGHT
- SOMETHIN' TO DO
- SOMETHING...NOTHING...AND EVERYTHING ELSE
- SORRY OBAMA
- SPLURGIN'
- STALKERISH TENDENCIES
- STEPPIN' MY GAME UP
- STFO
- STFU
- STINKY LADY
- STOP IN THE NAME OF BLOGGER
- STR8 DUMB SHYT
- STRESS
- SUGAR SPICE N' EVERYTHING NICE
- TAG HAPPY
- TAGGED
- TAKIN' ADVANTAGE
- TEENAGERS
- TEENAGERS SUCK
- TELL ME HOW I'M SUPPOSED TO BREATH WITH NO AIR
- TELL ME SOMETHIN GOOD
- TELL US WHAT YOU THINK
- TEMPTATION
- TESTING THE WATERS
- TGIF
- THANK GOD ITS FRIDAY
- THANKS BUT NO THANKS
- THAT'S A DAMN SHAME
- THAT'S A GOOD LOOK
- THAT'S A NO-NO
- THAT'S SOME BOOLSHYT
- THAT'S TERRIBLE
- THAT'S WASSUP
- THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKIN' BOUT
- THE BUCK STOPS HERE
- THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN
- THE END OF THE ROAD
- THE FAM
- THE IDLE MIND
- THE LAST STRAW
- THE NEW ADDITION
- THE PERFECT MATE
- THE SEVEN DEADLY SINS
- THE TERRORISTS ARE WINNING
- THE TRUTH ABOUT MS. HIGH N' MIGHTY
- THE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH
- THEY MAKIN' ME CRAZY
- THINGS ARE LOOKIN' UP
- THINGS THAT MAKE YA GO HMMM
- THINKING OUT LOUD
- THIS IS MY CONFESSION
- THIS iS WHY I'M HOT...
- THIS JUST IN
- THIS SUCKS
- THIS THAT AND THE THIRD
- Thoughts
- TMI
- TOE' UP FROM THE FLO' UP
- TOO MUCH FREE DAMN TIME
- TOO MUCH FREE TIME
- TOO MUCH INFORMATION
- TRAGEDY
- TV
- UGGHH
- UNDER THE WEATHER
- WAH DI RAAS A GWAN???
- WATCH OUT THERE NOW
- WE HAVE GOT TO DO BETTER
- WEDNESDAY'S SUCK
- WEEKEND PLANS
- WEEKEND WISHES
- WEEKEND WRAPUP
- WEIGHT GAIN
- Weird Dreams
- WEIRDO MAGNET
- WHAT HAPPENED...YOU CAN'T TAKE A HINT?
- WHAT I'Z GONE DO?
- WHAT IF
- WHAT PART DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND?
- WHAT TO DO
- WHAT TO SAY
- WHAT WOULD YOU DO??
- WHAT WOULD YOU DO?? DOES THIS MEAN I SUCK?
- WHAT'S GOIN ON
- WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?
- WHATCHU TALKIN' BOUT BABY???
- WHATCHU TALKIN' BOUT DOC??
- WHATCHU TALKIN' BOUT SON??
- WHEN GOOD KIDS GO BAD
- WHEN GOOD SEX GOES BAD
- WHEN WILL I LEARN
- WHEN WILL THEY LEARN?
- WHERE DID THE WEEKEND GO?
- WHERE DO THEY FIND THESE PEOPLE?
- WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE?
- WHERE HAS THE WEEKEND GONE???
- WHERE IS THE LOVE
- WHERE OH WHERE HAS MY BLOG MOJO GONE?
- WHO ARE U AND WHAT HAVE YOU DONE WITH MS. BEHAVING??
- WHO ME?
- WHO WOULD YOU DO?
- WHO'DA THUNK IT?
- WHOSE BAD?
- WHOSE IDEA WAS THIS ANYWAY?
- WHY
- WHY ME??
- WHY YOU ALL IN MY GRILL?
- WHY?
- WISHFUL THINKING
- WTF
- WTF FILES
- WTF MOMENT
- WTF MOMENTS
- WTF??
- Y'ALL SUCK
- YEAH...OKAY
- YOO HOO...I SEE YOU
- YOU AIN'T SEEN NOTHIN' YET
- YOU CAN GET IT
- YOU DECIDE
- YOU DONE LOST WHAT'S LEFT OF YOUR RIGHT DAMN MIND
- YOU NEED A HUG
- YOU NEED TO BE ASHAMED
- YOU'RE IT
- YOUR IDEAL MAN/WOMAN
13 Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest:
As my child is only 2yrs old, I can't really comment on what you've been through with your daughter.
But I think you did the right thing. Sometimes you have to let your kids learn on their own. As you said, she says she's grown and soon to be a married woman so she will need to learn to do things herself.
Hey you still have other children to take care of, and you need to be around for them. Stress can kill you, and you don't need that.
I hope things work out for both of you.
It's call tough love!
I think you do the right thing. You still have an 8 yr old to take care of. You don't need the added stress she's bring into your house.
By the things you've posted before, I know my mom would have put me out long time ago. Probably at the moment when "I'm grown" ecapes my lips.
Your daughter has to learn from her own mistakes. She will soon see the error of her ways and I'm sure you will be right there comforting her.
i don't even blame you, like she said she grown, hmph! so, she should do grown folk things, like pay her own bills and such. I'm ridin with you!
i paid my dad rent while living in his finished basement. if i wanted to allow my very disrespectful BD1 to continue to visit his son there then i was told that i would have to leave. I did. Never went back. So no, you ain't did nothing wrong. Kids have been put out for MUCH less.
I don't blame you the least bit. She lives in your house and needs to act like an adult while proclaiming to be one.
Sorry she had to get put out but she's grown, right? *sucking teeth*
$10 says she's be trying to crawl back soon and say that she will have a long engagement with the jailbird. *rolling eyes*
Married people usually live away from their parents. If she wants to marry someone who can't help support her, well she'll have to learn the consequences of that. Meanwhile, she'll be married and taking care of herself. Some of us learn lessons through the mistakes of others. Some of us learn by making mistakes ourselves. Either way, just pray for her safety and watch her learn.
Girl my mom didn't have ANY peace until she made her grown children do for themselves. My sisters were about to drive her crazy.
So kudos to you for putting an end to her foolishness. She'll appreciate you in the long run.
Only somebody who doesn't have an ingrate teen living in their house would even thing to utter that you did something wrong.
Just last night, okay three dark thirty in the morn, I had to look at the four, YES FOUR, negative contributions under my roof and tell them the shit was on the way to the fan and the rubber (of their shoe bottoms) was about to hit the bricks. But I digress...
You can't let your grandman be used as a hostage or bargaining chip in these types of negotiations. Otherwise you will end up raising him without her at all!
I know mine bet not think of telling me they are grown unless they got a damn signed lease wrapped up in their grubby little fists!
Do what you have to do? If she wants to be grown and do grown woman things, treat her like one. If she doesn't appreciate what you've done for her, let her future (as you say)punk.ass.jailbird.ass son's father take care of her.
Daayuuum...you did what i WISH Mars mom would do to his shit-talkin-think-she-fly-without-a- pot-to-piss-in-or-a-window-to- throw-it-out-of sister
shew..i feels no sympathy for NO ONE but the baby..but she'll make sure hes ok
you CANNOT live up in someones house PAY NOTHING,DO NOTHING and even have the meer THOUGHT that you can do as you please
Uh Uh not whats poppin
she'll learn and she'll be crawling back atsome point..they always do...I DID
Ms. B.... I can see..no... FEEL that your daughter has my type of attitude. Thinks she knows every damn thang, and most DEF feels like her parents OWE her EVERYTHING. I had to stop being an ungrateful wench and realize my parents worth. I didnt fully see it until I moved out and even then , for a while I acted very selfishly. Your daughter WILL get over being mad at you. And she WILL learn to appreciate you. And at the end, you all will definately end up being best friends... like me and my parents. *hugz*
Dayum! Now that's what you call Tough love like a m'ugg!
Nobody uses those smiley faces like you Sistah...I've been neglecting my blog too...we'll get better sooner rather than later!
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