Day 18/Post 17: INSTIGATING
I'm sure you all have noticed (by now) that I STAY TALKIN' SHIT/ always got an opinion on something !!! 
What can I say?!?!?! ---> It's what I do 
and as long as folks are askin' for it, it should be all good right??? ---> RIGHT!!! 
So check it...
A friend of mines confided in me that she's been catching her man in a bunch of little lies lately 
...
I'll spare you all the long/drawn out version of the story 
but the bottom line is her man had a death in his family so he needed to go shopping for a suit to wear to the funeral this weekend.
Now...My friend happens to think he buys all his clothes WAY too big (and I agree) so being the loving/caring girlfriend that she is, she offered to go shopping with him so she could give him a few much needed pointers BUT...he turned her down saying he had ALREADY made plans to go with some of the fellas in his family.
Mmmmm...Hmmmm
Well...when she phoned him later that afternoon (you know...just to see how he was making out) and he kept forwarding her calls to voicemail she was pissed. As a matter of fact, it wasn't until hours later that he made the mistake of answering her call WITHOUT REALIZING IT that she heard a female voice in the background.
Needless to say, she let his @ss have it (when she finally did get a hold of him) and he later fessed up that he had REALLY made the shopping trip with a female friend (who he forgot he told my friend some time ago ALSO has a crush on him) and that "he just didn't tell her because he knew she'd freak out about it" ---> which (of course,) earned him one of these:
I guess I could have sugar coated my thoughts on it all and told her that she was overreacting for being upset with him but then, I wouldn't be being a friend or giving her the honest opinion she asked for so I kept it 100.
I mean...personally, there's nothing wrong with a man shopping with his female friend but if it's as simple as that, then "you ain't got-ta lie Craig!!!!"
Furthermore, if he knows this chick is crushin' on him, then wouldn't he be making her think there's hope for them by hanging out/shopping with her?!?!?!
I'm just sayin FINE...INSTIGATING IN SOME FOLKS' OPINIONS BUT STILL...
- 2 MUCH FREE TIME
- 2007
- 2008
- A DAMN SHAME
- A NERVOUS WRECK
- A PENNY FOR YOUR THOUGHTS
- A WHOLE BUNCHA NOTHIN...
- AAARGGGHHH
- ABOUT ME
- ACCESS DENIED
- Adminstrative Professionals Day
- AGGRAVATION
- AIN'TCHU GOT SHIT ELSE TO DO?
- AINTCHU GOT SHYT ELSE TO DO?
- AM I OVERREACTING?
- ANOTHER 21 YEAR TO LIFE SENTENCE??
- ARE YOU FCKING KIDDIN' ME RIGHT NOW??
- ARE YOU SMARTER THAN 3rd GRADER?
- ARE YOU SMARTER THAN A 2nd GRADER?
- ASSBACKWARDNESS
- AWWW DAYUUUUM
- BABY MAMAS
- BABY MAMAS AND THEIR DRAMAS
- BACK TO WORK
- BAD CREDIT
- BAD HABITS
- BE BACK TOMORROW
- BEBE'S KIDS
- BEHIND EVERY BITCH THERE'S A MAN THAT MADE HER THAT WAY
- BETTER YOU THAN ME
- big boy
- BIG MISTAKE
- BIG PHAT LOSER
- BIT BY THE BUG
- BITCHASSNESS
- BOO-BOO DA FOOL
- BOOOO
- BOY PLEASE
- BOYFRIENDS
- BOYS ARE WAY MORE INQUISITIVE
- BULLIES
- BULLSHYT SCALES
- BULLSHYT TAX RETURN
- BUMBOCLAAT
- BUNCH'A BASTIDS
- BUSY
- CAN I HELP YOU?
- CAN'T BELIEVE MY EYES
- CAN'T WAIT TIL' FRIDAY
- CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?
- CELEBRITY CRUSHES
- CHEAP BASTIDS
- CHEATING
- children
- CHILE PLEASE
- COME GET YOU SOME
- CONFESSIONS OF A DRAMA MAMA
- CONSEQUENCES
- CONSIDER YOURSELVES WARNED
- COULDA...WOULDA...SHOULDA
- CRAZY DREAMS
- CREEPY
- DA CLUB
- DA DEVIL
- DA FAM
- DA FUGG AM I WAITIN' FER??
- DA FUGG IS THAT SMELL?
- DA HEEBIE JEEBIES
- DA HELL DONE GOTTEN INTO Y'ALL??
- DASS SOME BOLLSHYT
- DEAD ASS WRONG
- DECISIONS
- DEFYING YOUR PARENTS
- DELURKING DAY
- DID YOU KNOW?
- DID YOU SAY WHAT I THINK YOU SAID?
- DIS SOME BOOLSHYT
- DISBELIEF
- DOES THIS LOOK LIKE THE FACE OF SOMEONE WHO CARES?
- DOES THIS MEAN I SUCK?
- DOES THIS MEAN I'M BITTER?
- DOES THIS MEAN I'M LAME?
- DOES THIS MEAN I'M NOT ONE OF THE COOL PARENTS?
- DOIN' ME
- DON'T BELIEVE THE HYPE
- DON'T JUST STAND THERE...DO SOMETHING
- DON'T PUT OFF TIL' TOMORROW WHAT YOU CAN DO TODAY
- DON'TCHU GOT SHYT ELSE TO DO?
- Dreams
- DROPPIN' IT LIKE IT'S NOT
- DUH
- DUMB SHYT 101
- EASY STREET
- EAT BITCH
- EXCITEMENT
- EXPERIENCE REQUIRED
- FAJITA TITS
- FASHION
- FAST FOOD SUCKS
- FILL IN THE BLANK FRI.
- FLASHBACKS
- FRESH MEAT
- Friday
- FRIENDS TIL THE END
- FROM BAD TO WORSE
- FUCK KINDA QUESTION IS THAT?
- FUCKERY
- FUGG A VOWEL...BUY A CLUE
- FUGGEDABOUTIT
- FUN TIMES
- Funny
- FYI
- GET IN WHERE YOU FIT IN
- GETTIN IT 2GETHER
- GETTIN MY GET RIGHT ON
- GHETTOFABULOUSNESS
- GO SEE THE DOCTOR
- GOOD GOOGA MOOGA
- GOOD NEWS
- GOSSIP
- GROW DA FUGG UP
- GROW UP
- GROWIN UP
- GROWIN' PAINS
- GROWN ASS MESS
- GTFOH
- GUILT
- HAPPY HAPPY JOY JOY
- HAPPY HOLIDAYS
- HAPPY NEW YEAR
- HARDHEADED MO'FO's
- HAVE I NO SHAME?
- HAVING YOUR CAKE AND EATING IT TO
- HE'S ARRIVED
- HEADACHES
- HEATWAVE
- HERE I GO AGAIN
- HERE THERE AND EVERYWHERE
- HOLLA ATCHA GIRL
- HOT ASS MESS
- HOW
- HOW DID WE GET HERE
- HOW DID WE GET HERE?
- HOW DO I LOVE THEE?? LET ME COUNT THE WAYS...
- HUMILIATION
- Humor
- HUMP DAY
- I AIN'T ABLE
- I AIN'T MAD AT THAT
- I CAN'T DEAL
- I DIDN'T SIGN UP FOR THIS SHIT
- I DON'T DO MORNINGS
- I DON'T FEEL THE APPRECIATION
- I DON'T THINK SO
- I FEEL GOOD
- I GOTTA GET OUTTA HERE
- I HATE MONDAY
- I HATE SUPERBOWL SUNDAY
- I JUST DON'T GET IT
- I NEED TO BE SHAMED
- I O U AN ASS WHIPPIN'
- I SHO' CAN ATTRACT EM'
- I THOUGHT ONE HAND WAS SUPPOSED TO WASH THE OTHER
- I'D SHO' LIKE TO HIT IT
- I'M ANNOYED
- I'M JUST SAYIN'
- I'M NOT HAPPY
- I'M NOT HAPPY PEOPLE...NOT HAPPY
- I'M SOOO NOT READY
- I'M TIGHT
- I'VE GOT A SECRET ADMIRER
- I'VE GOT NOTHING
- IBTC
- IDGAF
- IF YA DON'T KNOW...NOW YA KNOW
- IMAGINE THAT
- IMPROVEMENT
- INCREASE MY ARSE
- INDECENT PROPOSAL
- INFIDELITY
- INSOMNIA
- IS IT MONDAY ALREADY???
- IT IS MORE THAN JUST SEX
- IT IS WHAT IT IS
- IT'S ABOUT TO GO DOWN
- IT'S ALL FUN N' GAMES TIL YOU HAVE A BABY
- IT'S MY BIRTHDAY
- IT'S NOT HAP'NIN
- IT'S NOT THAT SERIOUS
- JAYDEN
- JAYDEN'S DAD
- JUNK FOOD JUNKIE
- JUST BECAUSE
- JUST DO IT
- JUST MY LUCK
- JUST ONE OF THOSE DAYS
- JUST SAY NO
- JUST SAY NO TO SLACKING
- KARMA IS A BITCH
- KEEPIN' IT REAL
- KIDS
- KIDS...YA GOTTA LOVE EM
- KUDOS TO GOOD SAMARITANS
- LEEME LONE
- LESSONS LEARNED
- LET US PRAY
- LIKE TO HEAR IT...HERE IT GO
- LIVIN' LA VIDA LOCA
- LOVIN' THIS GRUB
- MAKE THIS MAKE SENSE
- MALE VS. FEMALE
- MAMA SAID THERE'D BE DAYS LIKE THIS
- MAN DOWN
- MAN UP
- MASS TRANSIT SUCKS
- MEME MADNESS
- MERRY CHRISTMAS
- MI FAMILIA
- MONDAY AGAIN
- MOVIES
- MUSIC
- MY BAD BRUH
- MY DIRTY LIL SECRET
- MY FAVORITE DAY OF THE WEEK
- MY GRANDSON
- NO MONEY MO' PROBLEMS
- NO TAG BACKS
- NO THANKS
- NOT A GOOD LOOK
- NOT AGAIN
- NOT HAPPY
- NOT I SAID MS. BEHAVING
- NOT SO BAD AFTERALL???
- OFFICE RANT
- OH HELL NO
- OH HELLZ NO...
- OH MY EYES
- OH NO HE DIDN'T
- OH NO SHE DIDN'T
- OH WORD?
- OLE NASTY ASS
- OLE' STANKY DANK
- ONE FOR THE WTF FILES
- ONE SHOT DEALS
- OOH LA LA
- OUT WITH THE OLD...IN WITH THE NEW
- OVERREACTING AM I?
- PAMPERING
- PARENTING 101
- PARTY TIME
- PARTY'S OVA
- PERVS 101
- PERVS SUCK
- PHATTY GURL ISSUES
- PHOTO POST
- PLAYIN' CATCHUP
- PRE-TEENS
- PROCRASTINATION
- PROCRASTINATION IS A MUH FUGGA
- PSA
- PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT
- PUTTIN' IT OUT THERE
- QUESTION OF THE WEEK
- RAMBLING
- RAMBLING AT RANDOM
- RANDOM QUESTION(S)
- RANDOMNESS
- RANTING
- REBELLION
- REGRET
- RELATIONSHIPS
- RESPONSIBILITIES
- ROOM TO BREATHE
- S'NOT A GAME
- SAD BUT TRUE
- SALES
- SAY A LIL' PRAYER FOR ME
- SAY IT AIN'T SO
- SCHOOL
- SEASONS GREETINGS
- SENIOR MOMENT
- SHAME ON DAMN ME
- SHAME ON ME
- SHE BOUT TO DRIVE ME TO DRANK
- SHE'S AT IT AGAIN
- SHENANIGANS
- SHOULD BE A CRIME
- SITCHO ASS DOWN
- SKINNY BITCHEZ ARE EVIL
- Sleep
- SMOTHERLY INSTINCTS
- SO I'VE BEEN THINKIN
- SO NOT READY
- SO NOT SEXY
- SO YOU THINK YOU CAN DANCE
- SO YOU WANNA BE STARTIN' SOMETHIN
- SO...I WAS THINKIN'...
- SOMEBODY LIED 2 YOU
- SOMEONE PLEASE CALL 911
- SOMETHIN' AIN'T RIGHT
- SOMETHIN' SOMETHIN'...SOMETHIN' SOMETHIN' JUST AIN'T RIGHT
- SOMETHIN' TO DO
- SOMETHING...NOTHING...AND EVERYTHING ELSE
- SORRY OBAMA
- SPLURGIN'
- STALKERISH TENDENCIES
- STEPPIN' MY GAME UP
- STFO
- STFU
- STINKY LADY
- STOP IN THE NAME OF BLOGGER
- STR8 DUMB SHYT
- STRESS
- SUGAR SPICE N' EVERYTHING NICE
- TAG HAPPY
- TAGGED
- TAKIN' ADVANTAGE
- TEENAGERS
- TEENAGERS SUCK
- TELL ME HOW I'M SUPPOSED TO BREATH WITH NO AIR
- TELL ME SOMETHIN GOOD
- TELL US WHAT YOU THINK
- TEMPTATION
- TESTING THE WATERS
- TGIF
- THANK GOD ITS FRIDAY
- THANKS BUT NO THANKS
- THAT'S A DAMN SHAME
- THAT'S A GOOD LOOK
- THAT'S A NO-NO
- THAT'S SOME BOOLSHYT
- THAT'S TERRIBLE
- THAT'S WASSUP
- THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKIN' BOUT
- THE BUCK STOPS HERE
- THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN
- THE END OF THE ROAD
- THE FAM
- THE IDLE MIND
- THE LAST STRAW
- THE NEW ADDITION
- THE PERFECT MATE
- THE SEVEN DEADLY SINS
- THE TERRORISTS ARE WINNING
- THE TRUTH ABOUT MS. HIGH N' MIGHTY
- THE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH
- THEY MAKIN' ME CRAZY
- THINGS ARE LOOKIN' UP
- THINGS THAT MAKE YA GO HMMM
- THINKING OUT LOUD
- THIS IS MY CONFESSION
- THIS iS WHY I'M HOT...
- THIS JUST IN
- THIS SUCKS
- THIS THAT AND THE THIRD
- Thoughts
- TMI
- TOE' UP FROM THE FLO' UP
- TOO MUCH FREE DAMN TIME
- TOO MUCH FREE TIME
- TOO MUCH INFORMATION
- TRAGEDY
- TV
- UGGHH
- UNDER THE WEATHER
- WAH DI RAAS A GWAN???
- WATCH OUT THERE NOW
- WE HAVE GOT TO DO BETTER
- WEDNESDAY'S SUCK
- WEEKEND PLANS
- WEEKEND WISHES
- WEEKEND WRAPUP
- WEIGHT GAIN
- Weird Dreams
- WEIRDO MAGNET
- WHAT HAPPENED...YOU CAN'T TAKE A HINT?
- WHAT I'Z GONE DO?
- WHAT IF
- WHAT PART DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND?
- WHAT TO DO
- WHAT TO SAY
- WHAT WOULD YOU DO??
- WHAT WOULD YOU DO?? DOES THIS MEAN I SUCK?
- WHAT'S GOIN ON
- WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?
- WHATCHU TALKIN' BOUT BABY???
- WHATCHU TALKIN' BOUT DOC??
- WHATCHU TALKIN' BOUT SON??
- WHEN GOOD KIDS GO BAD
- WHEN GOOD SEX GOES BAD
- WHEN WILL I LEARN
- WHEN WILL THEY LEARN?
- WHERE DID THE WEEKEND GO?
- WHERE DO THEY FIND THESE PEOPLE?
- WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE?
- WHERE HAS THE WEEKEND GONE???
- WHERE IS THE LOVE
- WHERE OH WHERE HAS MY BLOG MOJO GONE?
- WHO ARE U AND WHAT HAVE YOU DONE WITH MS. BEHAVING??
- WHO ME?
- WHO WOULD YOU DO?
- WHO'DA THUNK IT?
- WHOSE BAD?
- WHOSE IDEA WAS THIS ANYWAY?
- WHY
- WHY ME??
- WHY YOU ALL IN MY GRILL?
- WHY?
- WISHFUL THINKING
- WTF
- WTF FILES
- WTF MOMENT
- WTF MOMENTS
- WTF??
- Y'ALL SUCK
- YEAH...OKAY
- YOO HOO...I SEE YOU
- YOU AIN'T SEEN NOTHIN' YET
- YOU CAN GET IT
- YOU DECIDE
- YOU DONE LOST WHAT'S LEFT OF YOUR RIGHT DAMN MIND
- YOU NEED A HUG
- YOU NEED TO BE ASHAMED
- YOU'RE IT
- YOUR IDEAL MAN/WOMAN
5 Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest:
I agree, if it's all innocent, why do some people feel the need to lie about things? I'd rather know the whole truth than for someone to lie to me face (or in my ear) then act like they did it to protect me... and if you know it'll cause me to "freak out" then maybe it's something you shouldn't have been doing in the first place! That's how people get caught up!
See..this is that BS I be talking about. It wasn't innocent b/c if it was he would have told her the truth from jump.
It just never crosses my mind to lie about stuff. It just seems like too much work. I wonder what the real story is.
Hmmmm...let's recap;
She's starting to catch him in a lot of lies lately.
He CLEARLY preferred to shop w/ the crush rather than w/ his gf.
He IGNORED gf's calls repeatedly.
Why go thru all of that unless u REALLY have something to hide???
Next time his penis is just gone accidently do some personal shopping w/ this chick's vagina!
I'm just sayin...sounds like he's working up to cheating.
and rashan's response is why we're still together! lol. whatever man! she asked your opinion & you gave it! that's what happens when you ask questions & already know the answer, you don't like what you hear. b/c i'm sure she didn't like what you had to say.
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